Balancing Investor Euphoria with Market Reality

Many social media users share nearly all aspects of their lives, from photos of cute kids and pets to their political views. And now, we even are seeing posts from exuberant investors bragging about their investment returns. For example, consider this social media post:1 “I strived to become a 401(k) millionaire someday, and this week,…

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Planning for Retirement with Confidence

It is very common for people to feel anxious when it comes to planning for retirement. Oftentimes, this anxiety can stem from concern about the complexity of the process, the uncertainty of the outcomes, nervousness about having started to plan to late or trying to piece together the different parts that make a cohesive plan work. Ultimately, retirement worries stem from the understanding that life costs money and when you’re not sure where it’s going to come from, that causes stress.

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What is Financial Success?

If we look at society and societal norms, a lot of weight is given to success when it comes to defining happiness. If we see a person who is successful, it is often assumed that they are happy. On an existential level, we should consider what it all means. In reality, we actually have no idea whether or not that person is either happy or successful; for a couple of reasons: First of all, we can only measure someone else’s success or happiness by what we know about them. Secondly, and more importantly, we can only measure someone else’s success or happiness by how we define success and happiness. There is really no way of knowing whether their measures are even similar to our own.

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Where will your financial path take you?

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.”

–Robert Frost, excerpt from the Road Not Taken

In a recent article from Financial Advisor Magazine that identified the regrets, many people have for not taking more risks in life. “Among the top regrets were: not following their dreams, not taking risks with their careers, not taking risks with their lives in general, and not being gutsy enough in the choices they made.

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Maintaining Marital Bliss Through Your Retirement Transition

Compromise is a key component in any happy marriage. It gets couples through the many roadblocks that life places in the path of a long-term, committed relationship. And while the ability to negotiate and reevaluate throughout the long haul goes a long way, even the strongest partnership can find itself buckling under the stress of retirement. The hopes and dreams of what a life in retirement will look like can change over the course of a marriage. Couples who had previously expressed shared notions of what they want in their retirement may find themselves going in different directions when a life of work finally ends. Many couples who have had decades of marital bliss with little discord find themselves stressed and unhappy when retirement finally comes.

The level of marital stress during these years depends on which spouse retires first and if expectations of life in retirement have changed (for one or both partners) over time. The ability to “roll with the changes” certainly helps steady marital navigation during this often stormy time of reevaluation, but certain factors appear to have a significant impact on stress levels.

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